What to do with my life?

At some point when you were a child you knew what you wanted to be when you grew up. You played for hours doing things that you loved. Now you are all grown up and life is not quite the same. You have some unanswered questions:

WHAT TO DO WITH MY LIFE? WHAT IS MY PASSION? WHY AM I NOT FULFILLED? HOW DO I FIND MY DREAM JOB?

Well I am here to tell you that those things that you wanted as a child REALLY are the key to your dreams and is the most important starting place to finding the answers to these questions.

If you have some of these or similar questions then you are in the right place. You may feel you want more, or you have come to realize that you should be doing something else with your life but you are not quite sure what. Maybe you have an inkling about what you want but you lack the tools or strategies you need to move forward.

Taking some time to  investigate your childhood activities and past times will give you access to the things that you are passionate about. We never actually lose these passions, we just get off course.

Read here about some people  that have followed their passions as a child and now have the career - and life - of their dreams.

I wanted to be an astronaut

Read about what a professor says about living your childhood dreams

Building sandcastles

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What is your story?

Write your story of who you want to be exactly as you see it. Don't leave anything out.

Where you are, what surrounds you and see yourself right there doing IT. Don't worry if it sounds silly, or you can't quite give it a title; like doctor or teacher or plumber. Just write
what's on your mind, what love and what you love to do.

If you are struggling with it then start by writing 5 things you love to do.

I love to . . .

Ask yourself why you like to do them and how it makes you feel.

Now see if you can write your story from this.

Please post your story as a comment to this post.

Need help with this then email me info@lifecoachrocks.com

REMEMBER WHATEVER YOUR STORY YOU ALWAYS ROCK!

Here is another great post from a 15 year old boy who followed his dreams. Adarsha is a fifteen year old Indian American out to change the world as the executive director of Project Jatropha. He talks about not giving up on dreams and staying true to our passions. Click on the link below.

Have you stayed true to yours?

Do you need some momentum and guidance in getting your life rocking and creating your dreams?

If so please contact Life Coach Rocks at info@lifecoachrocks.com

Click on this link to read Adarsha's story

Passion of a 3rd grader

I subscribe to a daily email that I receive from InspireMeToday.com This website has posts from people all over the world which are called Inspirational Luminaries. Gail Goodwin is the founder of this website and she says that she created this site as "I have always been a seeker of information, especially that of a spiritual or motivational nature."

This morning I opened up my emails and as usual there was my email from InspireMeToday. Sometimes I do not read them but today I noticed that the name of this luminary was Zack!! I clicked on the link and I read a story about Zack who was in 3rd grade. He decided to act on an impulse, a gut instinct (what I call inspired action) to follow something that he felt strongly about. I will not go into the whole story here suffice to say that it is well worth reading. I have included a link to the story at the end of my post.

I followed my intuition and took some inspired action by deciding to write about the email I received since what Zack had done in his life speaks right at the heart of what I am about - looking to our childhood passions (the things we loved to do when we were kids) and then using those in the life that we lead now as adults.

I invite you to read his story and then ask yourself"

1) What did I feel strongly about when I was growing up?
2) What inspired action did I take?
3) In my life today how can I find that same inspiration?

Pleased post a comment and let me know your comments. If you prefer you can email me directly info@lifecoachrocks.com

TAKE INSPIRED ACTION TODAY

LifeCoach

Life coach rocks is back again.

I have just finished reading Scott Whittig's book called HOLY IT. It was a short, concise and easy read. He covered some very interesting topics related to finding and creating your IT in life. I love the way he shared his own personal experiences about some of the struggles he had to overcome in order to create his IT and finally bring the book to fruition.

As I was reading though I noticed that I was still struggling to discover my  IT. To this end I was still out on a limb. I then began thinking about all the terrific books I had read that talk about passion, purpose, and a dream life -  finding it and living it. The finding it part had still eluded me somewhat. I was stuck on how do I discover what my IT is? I hadn't found any good method that I could use to begin to create my IT.

Now I know about meditating, writing down my desires, creating possibilities, using a dream board, allowing the space to just "be" in order to open up . . . I think you know where I am going with this. There are some really great tips and methods that you can use that will give you a peek into living an inspired life.

BUT here's what I keep coming back to . . . HOW DO I FIND WHAT IT IS? How do I wade through some of the mental anguish to find what it is that I really want to do with my life; what my passions are and how I can bundle these into something called a career.

Being grateful and saying 'I love you'

I recently returned from a wonderful vacation with Zac. On our return I had some time on my flight to re-read one of my books - The Key by Joe Vitale. I began reading the book again before I left for the vacation and I couldn't wait to start reading it on my way home.

He has some very useful tips about getting clear, discovering what you want and creating the mind-set to attract it. It is a must read for everyone. His style of writing is easy and very concise.

There were two things that I have began working with in the last week. One of the first methods he describes is being grateful. We have all heard this from time to time from many of our self-help gurus but what really stuck out for me this time around was being grateful for even the smallest things around me. As I was noticing everything and articulating the things that I was grateful for, I began to feel lighter, happier and even excited to be alive. In case you missed that, I will say that again. As I was noticing everything and articulating the things that I was grateful for, I began to feel lighter, happier and even excited to be alive. When I am grateful for what is, no matter how small, there is a definite shift in how I feel. That feeling allows more life to flow and keeps me from being stuck.

The other technique he recommended was repeating the words 'I love you'. When I come across something that upsets me or become frustrating I silently say I love you. Something shifts in my thinking and subsequently my feelings. This technique is best described using an example.

The other day I was sitting at a public place and I was looking at a lady. Her appearance was shaggy and I remember beginning to make judgments about her. Look at her nails, her hair, her face. I caught myself in this degrading moment and immediately shifted to saying I love you. Not that I love her per say but instead of looking for everything I didn't like I just began saying I love you. I noticed that I was feeling at peace and happy. It took absolutely nothing on this woman's part but just a shift in my thinking!

Now while this is probably a tame example of the use of this I love you exercise, I assure you that I have used in almost every moment and especially when I begin to feel tense. It has been a great way to let go if the stress and feel happy and in gratitude for what is.

Yesterday I had the opportunity to go down to Indian Rocks Beach and participate in a sunset yoga class right on the beach. It was a beautiful evening. The weather was quite bearable considering we were on the beach and in the sun. We lay our towels down on the sand and began to face the ocean. The music started and we listened tentatively as Diana began to lead the class.

The whole experience was awesome. I attend Diana's yoga class every Monday night but tonight's class was especially superb given the beautiful surroundings. At the end of the 1 hour class we all sat down to a guided meditation. Diana read us a passage written by the Dalai Lama entitled compassion. As she read I began to notice where in my life I could start practicing more compassion. I looked at the people in my life that I could extend a helpful hand to or just a quick hello to check in with how they are doing.

As I drove home I noticed that my problems and resentments that I had accumulated for the day began to fade as I focused my attention toward compassion for others.

Thank you for the yoga class. Thank you Diana.